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Hi, welcome to our blog! Jerry and I have been married for 12 wonderful years! After years of struggling to have children, we met an amazing boy and are now trying to adopt him!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

As sweet as bonbons

G loved helping me bake. He helped me bake and decorate so many Christmas treats when he was here. Every year Jerry and I make cookie tins for friends and family and give them as host/hostess gifts or just as a little something special for people. G loved that we were giving them to people and he could tell them he made them. He loved the praise and positive attention, it was adorable! One of G’s favorite cookies to make and especially eat were Oreo bonbons.  You could whisper those words and no matter what part of the house he was in, he somehow heard those words and was right at our side, hoping we were about to indulge in some. 

G also loved Christmas music. In the beginning he’d sing along and any words he didn't know became Christmas tree. So I’m dreaming of a White Christmas became, “I’m dreaming of a White Christmas, With every Christmas tree Christmas Tree…” It was super cute! After we made bonbons and he realized how much he loved them, bonbons became his Christmas trees.J So Jingle bells became, “Jingle bells, Jingle bells, Jingle bon bon bon, bon bon bon, bon bon bon, bon bon bon bon bon!” He absolutely loved bonbons. J

When it came time to get his water bottle for his plane ride home, we found one that had a little secret compartment for snacks under the water bottle. G and I thought this was pretty cool and I knew Jerry and I had to fill it with something special for him. So the night before he had to fly back to his country, Jerry grabbed a couple of bonbons and put them in the secret compartment. The next morning I asked G to take a look in his room and make sure we didn't forget anything. He came out, said we were all good and started looking in his backpack to make sure his water bottle was in there and some other things I told him I’d put in there for him. He lifted his water bottle and felt something shift in it. A huge smile crossed his face and he said, “Special snack?” I said yes and told him he should open it and see what was inside. He opened it, saw the bonbons, jumped up and down, hugged me, and then ran off to hug Jerry. 

Like any child his age, he is an eating machine. So I had a backpack full of snacks for him for our day of traveling. I frequently offered him snacks and reminded him he had the bonbons. Every time he wanted a snack he opted for something else. When we arrived at the airport and had waited around for the rest of the hosting families to arrive, two young boys approached him and the three of them quickly shared all of their adventures from the past four weeks. When all the sharing had calmed, G ran to his bag, grabbed the photo album we made him and the two bonbons. He handed each of the young boys a bonbon--he shared his favorite snack and his only bonbons with his two little friends. My heart soared and I could not have been any prouder of him at that moment. G is such an incredible and sweet boy! We miss him very much!

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Tag the Bag

Hi Everyone!  
So, I've been on Pinterest A LOT trying to find fun and creative fundraising ideas and I came across one that we've decided to put a little spin on. It's called tag the bag. The general idea is that you take a suitcase and write all the names of the people that have donated to the adoption efforts. The post I read had them using the suitcase in their travels and then auctioning it off in the last phase of the adoption. We don't want to do that part though. What we'd like to do, is write all the names of the donors who have helped our adoption fund on the suitcase. Then give it to G when we get to the part of bringing him home, so he has it forever. Even though he's had a rough start in life he'd always be able to look at that suitcase and see that there are so many people out in the world that love him and want the best for him.
So starting today if you donate(any amount) your name will go on a suitcase for G. If you've previously donated your name will be put on the suitcase as well. If you donate anonymously and would like to stay anonymous (meaning, I won't put your name on the suitcase) please indicated to me in a response to our personally written thank you email.
Thank you so much to everyone for helping us try to bring G home!